Ramblings - Net theory -

I spent some time today thinking about this. But just a little time.

Lets apply this to say, relationships.

Suppose we cast our net wide. What we're looking for could be something very general and not very specific, something like age 17-27, either long or short hair (so long she has hair), doesn't have to be very tall or short. Doesn't have to be very pretty, just nice looking.

While these set of criteria probably encompasses at least 40% of all women in Singapore, is it possible that your net is too big? You end up catching nothing, because everything slips through.

After all, with the mentality of "There are so many trees in the forest, i'm bound to find someone better", you end up looking for the next one, and the next, and the next. Because you don't have anyone/thing specific in mind.

However, if you set your sights on someone, and decide that this is the person you want to chase/woo. One thing is your net becomes smaller, because this time its focused. All the effort you put in is for that one tree/fish(since we're using nets as an example..), and if its in your sights, its easier to catch, since you're ignoring all the other trees/fishes in your way.

Shouldn't that be the way relationships be? Instead of casting a wide net, i should focus on a single tree/fish. But that is the mentally i think we should have, after you cast a wide net and see the fish in your sight.

Okay, for those who's lost its fine, but for those who get it. Tag ya?